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|This easy to use online divorce is a "do it yourself (without a lawyer)" solution for any uncontested divorce (with or without children) that will be filed in the state of New Mexico. An uncontested divorce is one in which you and your spouse are in agreement and eliminates the stress and expense of settling your divorce in court.
With 3StepDivorce TM you can complete and print your New Mexico divorce forms (including a marital settlement agreement) instantly. Then, follow our step-by-step filing procedures to file your own divorce in a timely, professional, and hassle free fashion. The online software is designed to give you full control of your divorce and also avoids the use of third party data entry, thus helping protect your personal information and privacy.
Online Divorce FAQ: New Mexico
Filing for divorce can seem overwhelming. Like starting almost any other legal proceeding, it takes finding the right forms, filling out the forms properly, and understanding the court’s requirements for the next steps you’ll need to take.
Traditionally, most people have hired a lawyer to take care of all the legal matters in their divorce. But more and more couples are turning to a much cheaper option that’s still easier than figuring out everything on their own: filing for divorce online.
If you want to know more, read on for answers to some of the most common questions about online divorce in New Mexico.
How Does Online Divorce Work in New Mexico?
New Mexico 3StepDivorce™ takes care of the divorce paperwork for you. Once you sign up for the service, you’ll answer some questions about your situation. Based on your responses to the questionnaire, New Mexico 3StepDivorce™ will fill out the forms the state requires to start the divorce process, along with instructions for adding any further information that’s needed. You’ll be able to print out the forms yourself immediately or, if you prefer, get hard copies by mail.
Can I File for Divorce in New Mexico?
New Mexico has two basic requirements to file for divorce (or “dissolution of marriage”) in the state: a residency requirement, and a legally recognized reason for ending your marriage.
What Are the Residency Requirements for Divorce in New Mexico?
If you want to get divorced in New Mexico, either you or your spouse must have lived in the state for at least six months just before you filed your initial divorce papers. Also, one of you must have a “domicile” in the state. That means you intend to stay in your New Mexico home indefinitely, unless you met the residency requirement by being stationed in the state for six months as part of military service. (N.M. Stat. § 40-4-5 (2022).)
What Are the Grounds for Divorce in New Mexico?
New Mexico law allows both “no-fault” and “fault-based” legal reasons (“grounds”) for divorce. When you file for a fault-based divorce, you must claim that your spouse is to blame for the end of your marriage by committing adultery, treating you cruelly, or abandoning you. Because you’ll have to prove that claim, fault-based divorces almost always cost more and take longer to resolve—without any advantage in the vast majority of cases.
To file for a no-fault divorce, you and your spouse simply agree that your marriage is ending because you’re incompatible, meaning that you have no reasonable expectation of getting back together. (N.M. Stat. §§ 40-4-1, 40-4-2 (2022).)
Not surprisingly, most divorcing couples in New Mexico file for divorce based on incompatibility.
Do I Need a Lawyer to File for Divorce in New Mexico?
Many New Mexico residents are finding that they can file for divorce and get through the process without the expense of hiring a lawyer if they’re filing for an “uncontested divorce” in the state. That means that they’ve agreed with each other about all of the legal issues in their divorce, including:
- how to divide their property and debts
- alimony (known as “spousal support” in New Mexico), and
- child custody, visitation, and child support (if they have minor children).
If you still have disagreements with your spouse about these or any other issues involved in ending your marriage, you’ll have to file for a traditional, contested divorce. Because that will involve legal battles and presenting evidence and arguments at court hearings, it would be risky to pursue a contested divorce without a lawyer to navigate the process for you—especially if your spouse has an attorney.
Can I Use New Mexico 3StepDivorce™ in My Situation?
We follow standard procedures for uncontested, DIY divorces based on the local process. Our service requires both parties to be cooperative and in full agreement. Therefore, our services use no-fault grounds (for example, "irreconcilable differences") and each party will waive certain procedural rights.
We cannot accommodate cases that involve: existing cases or support orders; domestic violence; restraining orders; contested issues; missing spouses; protected addresses; common law marriages; dissolution of registered domestic partnerships; pregnancy; temporary or retroactive support orders; lack of jurisdiction over the children under the UCCJEA; exclusive jurisdiction over the case by another court; third-party child custody or support; or children who are emancipated or otherwise not dependent on the parties. Some cases may require additional forms or filing requirements that are not provided by our service, including but not limited to cases involving: filing fee waivers; change in address; recipients of public assistance; division or transfers of retirement accounts; and multiple visitation plans.
What If My Spouse and I Can’t Agree on the Issues in Our Divorce?
Just because you haven’t been able to agree with your spouse about everything in your divorce, that doesn’t necessarily mean that you have to go through an expensive and time-consuming contested divorce. You could try divorce mediation. Then, if you’re able to resolve your disagreements with the mediator’s help, you can use New Mexico 3StepDivorce™ to prepare the written settlement agreement, along with the other divorce paperwork.
Can I Get an Online Divorce in New Mexico If I Have Children?
Generally, you can use New Mexico 3StepDivorce™ even when you have minor children with your spouse, as long as you agree on all of the issues related to your kids, including legal and physical custody, a parenting (visitation) schedule, child support, health and dental insurance, and tax deductions. New Mexico 3StepDivorce™ will allow you to address these issues in your settlement agreement. We provide a standard parenting schedule, but you’ll have an option of customizing the schedule to meet your individual needs.
However, you won’t be able to address custody-related issues with New Mexico 3StepDivorce™ if the affected child or children don’t meet the “home state” requirement. Usually, that means the child must have lived in New Mexico with a parent (or a parent figure) during the entire six-month period before you file for divorce (or since birth if the child is younger than six months old). If you don’t meet the six-month rule, you should speak with an attorney to find out whether you might qualify for one of the complicated exceptions to this rule. (N.M. Stat. §§ 40-10a-102, 40-10a-201 (2022).)
How Will My Online Divorce in New Mexico Deal With Child Support?
In New Mexico, both parents have an obligation to support their children. And like all states, New Mexico has child support guidelines for calculating how much support the parents should pay, based largely on their incomes and custody arrangements.
3StepDivorce™ provides the New Mexico Child Support Guideline Worksheets, so you can easily calculate the state's guideline level of support. You and your spouse may agree to an amount of child support that differs from the guideline amount, but the judge will need to review your agreement and will only make it part of the final support order if the guideline amount would have been unjust or inappropriate. (N.M. Stat. § 40-4-11.2 (2022).)
In your settlement agreement, you and your spouse may include additional child support provisions that aren’t legally required, such as a parent’s contributions to private school tuition or the cost of a child’s college education. You may also agree on some specific questions like which parent will claim the children as dependents on tax returns.
Will We Be Able to Change the Amount of Child Support After Divorce?
After your divorce in New Mexico is final, you (or your spouse) may request a change in the amount of child support, but you’ll need to show that there has been a “material and substantial” change in your circumstances. The law presumes that’s the case if application of the child support guidelines would result in a change of more than 20% from the previous order, and more than a year has passed since the previous order. (N.M. Stat. § 40-4-11.4 (2022).)
The judge will review your modification request based on the same legal requirements for an original child support order.
If you want to save the time and expense of a court battle over a request to modify child support, you and your spouse may agree to a modification on your own. The form for requesting a modification (“Motion to Modify Final Order”) allows you to state that your ex agrees with your request.
How Will Online Divorce Handle Property and Debts From Our Marriage?
When you fill out your questionnaire for New Mexico 3StepDivorce™, you’ll answer a series of questions about your separate and marital property and debts, including how you’ll divide your marital property and allocate responsibility for payment of the marital debts.
What About the Family Home?
If you own a home with your spouse, your agreement can spell out what will happen to it when you get divorced. Here again, the questionnaire will include a few questions about the property and how you’ve chosen to deal with it, such as:
- selling the house and splitting the proceeds
- transferring ownership to one spouse, with the other spouse receiving money or other assets in exchange for that spouse’s share, or
- continuing to own the property together while allowing one spouse to stay in the house for a period of time (and, if so, how you’ll handle paying the mortgage and other ongoing costs).
What About Retirement Accounts?
In your New Mexico 3StepDivorce™, you may also agree on whether and how you’ll divide any retirement accounts that you and your spouse have, including 401(k)s, individual retirement accounts (IRAs), and defined-benefit pensions.
If you started contributing to the retirement plan before you were married, you’ll start by figuring out how much of its current value is marital property and how much is your separate property. There are experts and firms that will do this for you (for a fee, of course). The service is usually known as a pension appraisal or valuation. You’ll almost always need this kind of expert help when you’re dealing with a defined-benefit pension.
Once you know the marital value of your work-related retirement accounts, the easiest way to handle the division of the assets is not to split them but to transfer other assets as an offset. Here’s how that works: Say you have a 401(k) through your job, and the marital portion of the account is worth $100,000. If you and your spouse agree to divide that portion down the middle, and you have other marital assets to divide (such as a regular savings account), your spouse could receive an extra $50,000 from those assets while you keep the entire 401(k). That way, you don’t have to hire another expert to prepare the kind of special order that’s needed to tell the 401(k) administrator how to divide the account.
The rules are different for IRAs. You may simply agree to have your spouse’s share transferred to another IRA account in that spouse’s name. (You’ll have to submit a special form to the bank, along with a copy of your divorce decree.)
Can I Get Alimony With an Online Divorce in New Mexico?
You and your spouse may waive any right to spousal support in your New Mexico divorce, or you may agree on the specifics of alimony payments: who will pay, how much, and for how long. Your agreement may also state whether a court could modify spousal support at any time in the future, and it could cover related issues like health insurance and life insurance.
How Do I File My Divorce Papers in New Mexico?
When you get your completed forms with New Mexico 3StepDivorce™, your next step will be to take the signed papers (and two copies) for filing with the district court clerk’s office in the county where either you or your spouse lives. You can find location information, phone numbers, and websites on the New Mexico Courts website.
How Much Is New Mexico’s Filing Fee for Divorce?
The fee for filing initial divorce papers can vary slightly from county to county, but they’re typically about $140. You can find the fee policies on the district court’s website.
What If I Can’t Afford to Pay the Divorce Filing Fee?
If you can’t afford to pay the filing fee, you may apply for a waiver or reduction by filing an Application for Free Process form, along with an affidavit detailing your income, assets, and expenses.
How Long Does an Uncontested Divorce Take in New Mexico?
When you and your spouse have signed and filed your forms for an uncontested New Mexico divorce, there’s no mandatory waiting period before you may have the hearing to finalize your divorce. The amount of time it takes before your hearing is scheduled will simply depend on how busy the court’s calendar is.
How Can I Get More Help With New Mexico Online Divorce?
New Mexico 3StepDivorce™ provides unlimited, live, person-to-person support for customers. If you have any questions about how uncontested divorce works, call our New Mexico Divorce Online Help Center at (888) 665-6782 (toll free), Monday through Friday from 8 am to 5 pm (Pacific Time).
Please keep in mind that we are not lawyers and so cannot give out legal advice. If you have questions about New Mexico law or need legal advice, we recommend that you contact an experienced family law attorney in your area.