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3StepDivorce FAQS About North Dakota 3StepDivorce™

3StepDivorceCan I file for my divorce in the State of North Dakota?

In almost all cases, you file for a divorce in the state where you reside. This means that if you are a resident of North Dakota, you file in North Dakota and are governed by North Dakota's divorce laws even if you were married, for example, in California.

You must meet North Dakota's residency requirement for a North Dakota court to have jurisdiction over your divorce.

3StepDivorceWill North Dakota 3StepDivorce™ work in my situation?

North Dakota 3StepDivorce™ works as long as both you and your spouse agree about everything, and both of you are willing to sign the divorce paperwork.

You do not have to sign the papers together, at the same time and place, but the North Dakota 3StepDivorce™ requires both spouses to sign.

3StepDivorceDoes North Dakota 3StepDivorce™ work if I have children?

It sure does. The North Dakota 3StepDivorce™ deals with all issues regarding children, including but not limited to, physical and legal custody, visitation and support, care, health insurance and tax deductions.

3StepDivorceDo I need a lawyer to file for divorce in North Dakota?

Not with North Dakota 3StepDivorce™. Thousands of people divorce in North Dakota every year without hiring a lawyer. North Dakota 3StepDivorce™ gives you all the divorce documents required by the court.

When spouses cannot agree about the terms and conditions of their divorce, they sometimes end up in court where a judge makes decisions for them. This is called a contested divorce, and hiring a lawyer is a good idea in this case.

But when a case is uncontested - when you and you spouse agree about everything - filing your own divorce cuts legal costs and leaves both spouses with more money each can surely use when they begin their new lives as single people.

3StepDivorceWhat are the residency requirements for a North Dakota divorce?

The residency requirements for a divorce in North Dakota are as follows:

The filing spouse must be a resident of North Dakota for at least six months prior to the entry of the final divorce. The divorced must be filed in the county where the Defendant resides if he or she is a resident of North Dakota. If the Defendant is not a resident, the divorce may be filed in any county the Plaintiff designates in the complaint.

3StepDivorceMust I prove that I am a resident of North Dakota in order to file for my divorce?

Yes. The divorce paperwork requires a signed authentication that you have been a resident of North Dakota.

This is a state law.

Signing false statements is perjury.

If the court requires proof for some reason, typically a North Dakota driver's license or state identification is sufficient. An affidavit of a corroborating witness testifying about your residency also works.

3StepDivorceWhat if my spouse does not live in North Dakota?

Your spouse does not need to live in North Dakota to use 3StepDivorce™. After you have printed all the divorce paperwork, you simply mail the documents to your spouse and he or she signs them. After your spouse returns them, you file in your local county court.

Very often divorcing spouses live in different states.

3StepDivorceWhat are the grounds for filing a divorce in North Dakota?

You must choose one of the following grounds to divorce in North Dakota. Without instructions to the contrary, North Dakota 3StepDivorce™ automatically selects the most common ground used for uncontested actions. However, if a different ground is desired, our support team makes the changes upon request.

The grounds for divorce in North Dakota are as follows:

No Fault: Irreconcilable differences, which are determined by the court to be substantial reasons for not continuing the marriage and which make it appear the marriage should be dissolved.

Fault: 1) adultery, 2) extreme cruelty, 3) willful desertion, abuse of alcohol or controlled substances, 6) conviction of a felony.

3StepDivorceHow long does a divorce take in North Dakota?

Once the divorce paperwork has been filed in court, it usually takes 30 to 90 days for a divorce to be final. The start to finish time of the divorce may vary depending on the caseload of the court and the availability of judges to sign the final Order for Judgment.

3StepDivorce™ saves time because all lengthy delivery times are eliminated when you print your documents from your computer. You control revisions and reprintings as necessary.

3StepDivorceDo I have to appear in court?

In North Dakota, a divorce hearing is not typically required unless you and your spouse have children. If there are children involved, a short hearing, generally about 15 minutes, gives the court an opportunity to make certain that you understand the parameters of custody, visitation and support that are ordered as part of your divorce.

If there are no children, the process in very streamlined. Since you and your spouse are in agreement, there is nothing for the court to decide.

3StepDivorceAfter my divorce, how long do I have to wait in North Dakota before I can remarry?

There is no mandatory waiting period in North Dakota.

3StepDivorceDoes North Dakota permit a name change as part of the divorce?

Yes. 3StepDivorce™ includes a protocol for the wife to take back her former or birth name as part of the filing. It is easier to effect a name change during the divorce rather than after the divorce is finalized. Name change questions are part of the account, and divorce documents are prepared appropriately.

3StepDivorceDoes North Dakota 3StepDivorce™ address the division of our property and debt?

Separate and marital property and debt is identified and addressed in your 3StepDivorce™ account. A series of questions itemizes property and debt, dividing and allocating both. The answers become part of the divorce documents, so it is clear to you, your spouse and the court how assets and liabilities have been divided.

3StepDivorceWill I be able to address our retirement accounts?

Yes. You answer a few questions dealing with individual retirement accounts. You have the option of waiving rights to each other's account(s), or dividing any marital portion of an account by a specific percentage or a dollar amount.

3StepDivorceWhat about the marital home?

Once again, a few questions inside your account deal with the disposition of the marital home. All possible scenarios are covered -- sale, planned sale, transfer from one spouse to the other, and co-ownership.

A home is often the largest asset a married couple has, and a significant portion of the divorce documents deal with this asset.

3StepDivorceWill I be able to address spousal support?

A few questions in your account deal with temporary or permanent spousal support. Rights to spousal support may be waived, or a couple can agree to a specific amount for a set period of time. These questions define and limit the parameters of the desired spousal support, which often terminates upon remarriage or cohabitation.

3StepDivorceDoes North Dakota require child support?

North Dakota requires that a support order be put in place for all children.

You and your spouse have some latitude on the amount of child support based on your economic situation. If your situation warrants it, you can enter "O" as the support amount, and that is how the support order reads.

Child support and visitation are separate issues, and a divorcing couple may not use one to leverage the other.

3StepDivorce™ provides the North Dakota Child Support Guideline Worksheet, so you can easily calculate the state's recommendation for monthly support, but you have the option of taking these recommendations under advisement. The courts realize that you and your spouse know your situation better than they do, so they will approve any reasonable support amount, even if it is different from the one on the state worksheet.

3StepDivorceHow do I calculate how much child support I owe?

We provide North Dakota Child Support Worksheets inside your account. These worksheets make it very easy to calculate a monthly support amount. The support calculation is based on a number of variables, but the primary one is income.

Once you have calculated the amount, you and your spouse decide if you want to deviate from it and the reasons for doing so.

3StepDivorceCan I deviate from the North Dakota child support guideline?

Yes. Once you and your spouse agree to a monthly child support amount, a judge reviews your decision. He or she will accept it if it seems reasonable. However, if it seems too high or too low, the judge will want an explanation why the two of you came to amount so much at variance from the state guidelines. Your explanation and reasons for it determine whether or not the judge accepts your proposed child support amount.

3StepDivorceHow do I know when I can deviate from the North Dakota child support guidelines?

North Dakota permits deviation from its child support guidelines when, having applied the North Dakota Child Support Guidelines, the court also examines the resources that are available to each parent and "any out of the ordinary circumstances that may warrant the inability to pay a certain amount of support."

3StepDivorceIn North Dakota, can child support be modified after the divorce?

Yes. Child support can be modified based on a change in circumstances. In North Dakota, a change in circumstances means "a significant change in circumstances," generally, changes "not considered when the original judgment was entered" that are "permanent and substantial" and/or "affect one's current standard of living."

3StepDivorceIn North Dakota, can child custody arrangements be modified after the divorce?

Yes. Child custody arrangements can be modified when, for example, they break down because of the conduct of one of the former spouses.

3StepDivorceCan we customize our child custody arrangements?

Yes. The terms and conditions of both sole and joint/shared custody are defined. You answer a few questions and your custody arrangements are prepared for you.

3StepDivorceCan we specify our visitation/parenting time schedule?

Yes. You can either use a standard schedule that we provide in your account, or you can use our option to customize your own.

3StepDivorceIn North Dakota, how long do I have to pay child support?

Unless otherwise stated in a child support order, you are no longer required to pay child support in North Dakota when the child turns 18, or. If the child is high school, when the child turns 19 or graduates from high school, whichever is first.

Child support may extend beyond emancipation because of schooling and/or extraordinary medical expenses or conditions.

3StepDivorceIn North Dakota, do any or all of the divorce documents need to be notarized?

Yes. Some of the divorce papers need to be notarized. The step-by-step filing instructions explain who signs what and whether a particular document needs to be notarized. The documents requiring notarization contain notary clauses below individual signature lines.

3StepDivorceDo my spouse and I have to sign and/or notarize the documents at the same time and/or place?

No. If desired, each of you may sign and/or notarize a document at a different time and/or place.

As mentioned, very frequently spouses sign and notarize the documents at different times and places because they live apart in different states. This happens often, for example, when one of them has moved or is in the military.

3StepDivorceIn North Dakota, where do I file?

In North Dakota, the divorce papers are filed in the County of _____________, in the District Court, ______________ Judicial District, which is the local county courthouse, where the Domestic Relations or Family Law department accepts the divorce filing. The divorce documents are submitted to the Clerk of the Courts. You pay a filing fee, and the clerk assigns the case a case number.

3StepDivorceWhat is the filing fee in North Dakota?

In North Dakota, the filing fee is $80. If you want to know the exact amount, you can call the courthouse and ask.

Filing fees underwrite the cost of the court system, but in the case of indigent petitioners these fees may be waived.

3StepDivorceHow can the fees be waived?

Normally, an indigent petitioner completes a very short form at the time of filing. This form asks the court to waive the fees because of financial hardship.

3StepDivorceCan I stop a divorce in North Dakota once I sign up?

Yes. If you have signed up but not filed any divorce papers, then nothing must be done. If you have initiated the action by filing the Complaint for Divorce, your case can be dismissed by petitioning the court to do so. Normally, this can only be done by the filing spouse and must be done in writing.

Often the clerk of the court can help a person remove a case from the court docket.

3StepDivorceCan I use 3StepDivorce™ in North Dakota if my spouse is incarcerated?

Yes, as long as you can mail (or deliver) the papers to your spouse and he or she signs them, 3StepDivorce™ will work for you.

3StepDivorceWhat documents do I receive with my North Dakota 3StepDivorce™ account?

The documents you receive vary depending upon your individual situation, for example, if you have children.

The North Dakota 3StepDivorce™ includes the following documents:

- North Dakota Filing Instructions
- Complaint for Divorce
- Verification for Divorce
- Marital Settlement Agreement
- Schedule for Visitation of Minor Children (attach to MSA)
- Financial Affidavit (Plaintiff)
- Financial Affidavit (Defendant)
- Child Support Instructions
- Child Support Worksheet
- Child Support Schedule 1 - Hypothetical Federal and State Income Tax
- Child Support Schedule 2 - Health Insurance
- Child Support Schedule A - Imputed Income
- Child Support Schedule B - Self-Employment Income
- Child Support Schedule C - Multiple Families
- Child Support Schedule D - Adjustment for Extended Visitation
- Child Support Schedule E - Foster Care
- Declaration Under Uniform Child Custody Jurisdiction Act
- Entry of Appearance. Consent and Waiver of Service
- Notice of Final Hearing
- Findings of Fact, Conclusions of Law, and Order for Judgment

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